Hands packing pink roses and gypsophila into a white box
About the planner

Margot Ellery and a small, steady team

A planner from hotel dining rooms, who still plans every wedding the way a good dinner is run: long preparation, few guests and no visible effort.

Open planning notebook beside sprigs of gypsophila

Most of the work happens months before anyone sees it.

The planner

From hotel dining rooms to small weddings

Margot learned her trade at the back of hotel dining rooms, watching how a good evening is built hours before the first guest arrives.

For eight years she ran private dinners, anniversaries and the occasional very small wedding for a country hotel. The best of those nights had something in common: a short guest list, a long preparation and a host who never looked busy.

She started Evermere to plan whole weddings that way. The studio is deliberately small. Margot leads every wedding herself, with one assistant planner and a steady team of coordinators who have worked side by side for years.

When she is not planning, she is usually at a flower market at six in the morning, or testing a new route between a ceremony and a dinner with a stopwatch in her pocket.

Margot Ellery

Founder and lead planner

Planner kneeling to lay out greenery for a long table garland

Laying out a garland the evening before a barn wedding. Planner photographs are stock images in this template.

How we work

Four promises we keep

Written on the studio wall and repeated at every first call, so you know what to hold us to.

I

Small on purpose

We take a handful of weddings each season and never two on one weekend. The planner you meet is the planner you get.

II

Written down, always

Every meeting ends with a short note of what was decided. Nothing important lives only in someone's memory.

III

Your taste, not ours

We have opinions and share them when asked. The day should look like the two of you, not like our portfolio.

IV

Calm is a skill

Something always goes a little wrong. Our job is to fix it before anyone notices, and never to let you see us hurry.

The team

A small, steady team

Three people plan, and two to four coordinators join on the day, depending on your guest count and venue. Sample team for this template.

ME

Margot Ellery

Founder and lead planner

Leads every wedding from the first call. Before Evermere: eight years of private dinners and small events in a country hotel.

IV

Iris Vane

Assistant planner

Design boards, stationery and the seating plan. Keeps the supplier list and the budget sheet honest.

TM

Theo Marsh

Lead day coordinator

Runs set-up, timings and pack-down. The calm voice on the radio and the person holding the spare umbrella.

Where we plan

Within a day's drive, and further for a weekend

Most of our weddings are within a few hours of the studio. For a small weekend away by the sea or in the hills, we travel too, with travel quoted at cost before you book.

  • Gardens and orchards

    Spring to early autumn

  • Barns and old halls

    All year, heated in winter

  • Coast and shoreline

    Late spring to early autumn

  • Private dining rooms

    All year

  • Town halls and chapels

    For the ceremony, all year

  • Weekends away

    Travel at cost

Bride and groom holding hands, wedding rings in soft light
Begin here

Tell us about the day you are imagining

Write a few lines: the season, roughly how many guests, a place you love or are still looking for. We reply within two working days with a time for a first call.

  • 01 A first call of forty-five minutes, at no charge
  • 02 A written proposal and fee within a week
  • 03 Your date is held once the deposit is in